While
the advice on this site might be helpful, it's not likely
that it's going to be all it takes to solve your problems
-- although that would be nice. It's the steps you take on
your own that make the real diffence. Below is an all-you-can-take
buffet of help, resources, and information. No, no, no, these
are NEVER a substitute for professional care. If you're in
need of immediate help, contact your local hospital or dial
911 (in the U.S.). Stop reading this and get help now.
One
thing worth mentioning, the longer I write this advice column,
the clearer it has become to me that no one is ever alone
in the world. Seriously, somewhere, in some place, there is
someone dealing with a similar situation. And when you do
feel alone, know that there are thousands of people around
you who are waiting, hoping, and wanting to help you. So
please, take advantage of all the people, places and resources
available that can help make things better for you.
